Upward Care Ltd

  • Camelia Monica Ryder

    Otherwise known as Monica Ryder

    likes to abuse James Foden’s Incapacity

    because she knows he is too incapacitated to prevent her.

  • James is 20 and has a mental age of 2 to 4 and is defenceless against Monica Ryder’s relentless abuse of his incapacity to deprive him of his liberty to Skype his loved ones who he grew up with and who grew up with him.

  • Monica Ryder has libelled and defamed James’s father, two brothers: Sasha and Sirus and sister Simone as unfit and unworthy to contact him in the most hightly targeted way by targeting ALL of the professionals involved in James’s care.

  • To cause maximum devastation and distress to James’s family she has deceitfully manipulated & groomed all of the professionals in James’s care to aid and abet her to abuse James’s incapacity to airbrush out of his defenceless life his father, brothers and sister

  • who she was so happy to leave James with during his daytime hours until he was 13 to support her full time job. Then she outsourced daytime care to professional care workers except Monday nights and every other weekend when James stayed with his paternal family.

  • Monica Ryder took over from James’s grandparents as the connector of his fortnightly Skype calls to his father brothers and sister in 2012 until late summer 2014 when she cruelly made herself incommunicado and pushed James under the radar for 2 months - a distressful time

  • during which James had vanished from the face of the earth. After 2 months of not knowing if my son was alive or dead I contacted Solihull Adult Social Services where I received a frosty reception from James’s now known to be renegade social worker: Katy Ivko who told me James cannot see

  • his loved ones any more because his principal carer is his carer and as such she decides who my incapacitated son can or cannot see. Clearly, Ms Ivko has no awareness of of the Mental Capacity Act 2005 S16 & the Disability Discrimination laws & the truth about James’s loving relationship and strong bonds with his

  • paternal family who raised him to the age of 13 during his daytime hours. Katy Ivko’s lack of knowledge of the law and the facts surrounding her client’s loving relationship with paternal family amounts to Professional Negligence. Ivco fully supports Ryder’s past and ongoing abuse of James’s incapacity.

  • Solihull Council, via their complaints team, also fully support Ryder’s ongoing abuse of my son’s incapacity to deprive him of his liberty to Skype & continue his loving relationship with 3 siblings who will one day be the only family he has left to keep an eye on him, visit him & bring his nephews and neices to visit him - he adores children and babies.

  • Solihull Council, via their complaints team, also fully support the tissue of lies & libellous comments about James’s family that Ryder fed them and the council fully supports the abusive airbrushing of and a defnceless incapacitated person’s loved ones out of his life & fully supports the abusive airbrushing of a defenceless incapacitated person’s loved ones out of his life & fully supports the renegade Katy Ivko

  • aiding and abetting my son’s abuse by covering it up. Therefore Solihull Council have aided and abetted Ryder’s abuse of my son’s incapacity by covering up for the renegrade and Professionally Negligent Katy Ivko who covered up for the abusive Ryder who likes to abuse my son’s incapacity to deprive him of loved

  • loved ones just because she knows he can and she knows it hurts. The Solihull Council employees who have gone on the record to officially abuse my defenceless young son are: Alison Coppock, Lizz Gillespie & Karen Millard who all officially support Katie Ivko’s and Monica Ryder’s abuse

  • of my son’s incapacity and they have all worked relentlessly to deprive my son of his loving relationship with his growing paternal family who he grew up with and who grew up with him. As I’ve proven that Solihull Council only recognise laws that suit their cause - they will not recognise the Mental Capacity Act 2005

  • & the Disability Discrimination laws to stop them from putting my son at a disadvantage to his non severely incapacitated 20 year old peers and they will recognise the libel laws because they will think that they exposing of thie abuse of a vulnerable person’s incapacity libels them! They won’t realise that

  • the only people who’ve been libelled are James’s father, brother & sister - as unfit and unworthy to maintain the loving relationship they’ve had for 20 years. As Solihull Council are so selective in the laws they are prepared to recognise I present you with James’s Safeguarding Website that exposes Solihull Council with detailed evidence.

Please subscribe to and enjoy my beautiful son's expression of his love for his paternal family on the beautiful videos on James's YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/@jamesfoden

Dear PC X

ABUSE OF AN EXTREMELY VULNERABLE PERSON REPORT

Dear Danielle / Jane (Upward Care Ltd Care Managers)

Okay, but please offer baby like James and extra night or two. I requested 18 dreams come true for him.

Each night with his family is a dream come true for him. His family time is the only time he has 100% freedom of facial and verbal expression when he can be 100% himself in what he can say do and think.

This is what baby like James considers normal life.

Baby like James doesn't have the mental capacity, like all babies, to choose to be taken away from his family and be put in a care home with 4 teenage like people to control everything baby like James can say do and think for 10 years.

No baby would ever choose to leave it's family and be put in a care home with "carers"who don't know what what the baby like person's disability is, and 4 coercively controlling teenage like coresidents to tell the baby like person everything he is allowed to say do and think for 10 years. 

And who have been told by malicious mass deceptive hate filled fraudsters and perjurers that baby like has never loved Daddy, Nanny, Grandad, brother Si and sister Simone.

Baby like James is only allowed to say what his Upward Care Ltd. carers and 4 coercively controlling co residents tell him he is allowed to say do and think. He wants 18 nights respite from this.

The whole world knows this answer:

If a baby like person is forced to live with 4 teenage like people does:

A: The baby like person coercively controls the 4 teenage like people.

Or

B: Do the 4 teenage like people coercively controlling the baby like person

Danielle, the whole world knows baby like James has no control over Je, W, T and L.

The whole world knows that Je, W, T and L have total control over everything that baby like James is allowed to say think and do and their speciality is controlling him to behave in front of his father brother, sister and step mom Cherma on his family  video call in a manner that is totally the opposite to how he behaves with us when nobody is coercively controlling what baby like James is allowed to say do and think.

Every night of freedom from coercive control over what baby like James can say do and think is a dream come true for him!!!!

Every night of 100% freedom of verbal and facial self expression is a dream come true for baby like James.

Every night baby like James is with his loved ones he grew up with and who grew up with him and who all recognised his lifetime baby like mental capacity prognosis diagnosed in the theory beyond all doubt by his MRI scan Neuronal Migration and Microcephally report when he was 2 years old and, 29 years later baby like James practices the same baby like mental capacity behaviour practiced every day and documented on his safeguarding YouTube channel.

How does baby like James, locked into a 31 year old man's body practice his baby like mental capacity behaviour:

1: Permanent Baby like mental capacity  ((behaviour like a baby / toddler)

2 Baby like speech impairment 

3 Baby like incontinence 

4 Baby like unsteady gate (gross motor) like a toddler just learned to walk, very wobbly and regularly bumps into things.

5: Baby like fine motor like a baby just learning to use his hands and fingers where things slip threw his fingers

6 Baby like can't use a knife and fork

7 Baby like can't undress himself.

8 Baby like can't dress himself 

9 Baby like James is defencelessness

10: Baby like James has baby like vulnerability when in the company of 4 teenage like coresidents 

11: Baby like vulnerability when in the company of carers who don't recognise his disability despite being regularly told about it for 10 years. Please check out baby like James's Safeguarding website.

12: Baby like vulnerability in the presence of coercively controlling carers and coresidents who abuse and defraud baby like James by controlling him to pass off their words, facial expressions and behaviours so that they can fraudulently pass off their words, facial expressions and behaviours that are totally opposite to what baby like James wants to say, think and do to leave a person who didn't know better wrongly thinking that baby like James didn't love his family to bits,

Baby like James was trying to run away from Je, W, T and L when he was at Reynalds Cross disabled School and the disabled school excluded baby like James when he had the chronological age of a 12 year old. because baby like James was disabled.

I reported Reynalds Cross School to the SENDIST Tribunal and the Tribunal recognised from the theory of baby like James's MRI scan report and the baby like behaviour baby like James practiced every day, and still does today, that Reynalds Cross School was ordered to apologise to me ()baby like James's father, principal carer, and sole legal adviser, for abusing my oldest son and Solihull Council was ordered to give baby like James 2 to one care.

As baby like James's only  Principal carer and legal advisor Solihull Council asked me to check out the best school for baby like James which I determined to be Merstone school. Solihull Council asked me to sign baby like James into Merstone School alone because Monica Ryder refused to sign baby like James into the best school for him.

For baby like James's 6 chronological years from 12 until 18 baby like James's Neuronal Migration Disorder, Microcephaly rendering his lifetime mental capacity of a baby was recognised and appropriate care was given and baby like James had 6 very happy years and respite from Je, W, T and L who he was constantly trying to run away from at Reynalds Cross School.

Even today baby like James exclaims "my school, my school" when he goes past Merstone School on the X12 bus to town some 13 years after he left the school.

Danielle, you know that everyone involved in baby like James's care is inferior to me as a carer, including yourself, because I am baby like James's only carer and legal advisor with a 100% record of 100% recognising baby like James severe physical brain disorders that render his lifetime mental capacity of a baby and I am the only person who has a 100% record of 100% recognising his love for his father, Nanny and Grandad and brother Si and Sister Simone.

Now Danielle, the people at 3 W Road who have hated on baby like James once he had a chronological age of 12 by libelling and defaming baby like James's family in the most highly targeted way to make everyone in baby like James's care prehate baby like James's Principal carer, myself, his father and his Nanny and Grandad  and his brother and sister and subjected baby like James 10 years of pergatory of being abused by non recognition of his disabilities and 10 years of coercive control of everything he is allowed to say do and think by his 4 teenage like coresidents who baby like James thought he had escaped from when he had a chronological age of 12 and was moved from the abusive Reynalds Cross disabled school to the very professional Mersone disabled school.

Baby like Jamers had no idea that 6 years later the Ryders' would commit this hate against baby like James with their hate filled malicious communication in the Court Protection with their Mass Deception, Serial Fraud, Perjury, their total contempt of the judge and their coercive control of baby like James to say to the judge he didnt like his paternal family and they contempted the judge with the fraud derived from a bent psychologists who argue that if a person has a verified by Xray broken arm, the arm is not really broken if a bent psychologist says the arm is not broken and its all in the patient's mind (MRI scan beyond doubt theoretical diagnosis of Neuronal Migration Disorder and Microcephally and a life time of practicing baby like mental capacity in James's case), the bent psychologists defrauded baby like James by falsely writing a story that baby like James was a normal man with a touch of Autism, they didn't tell the judge about baby like James's Neuronal Migration disorder rendering him the lifetime mental capacity of a baby they didn't tell the judge that baby like James doesn't have the mental capacity to understand the consequences of any words that come out of his mouth whether his own or what he is coercively controlled to say and they didn't tell the judge that baby like James was only saying these words to get his bus after the hearing. 

This rendered the judge unable to appoint "legal" carers who held him in contempt for the whole hearing leaving only myself as baby like James's sole carer, sole legal advisor and the only person with a 100% record of recognising baby like James lifetime baby like mental capacity and lifetime love of his paternal family.

Therefore the criminals (Malicious Communicators, Mass Decievers, Perjurers, Coercive Controllers of baby like James and Libellors and defamers of baby like James's paternal family and harrassors of everybody involved in baby like James's care to abuse and defraud baby like James's baby like mental capacity) at 3 Road: Therefore Camelia Monica Ryder, other wise known as Monica Ryder and Dominic Ryder don't have any legal rights regarding baby like James's care and legal rights.

These rights all fell to me by the SENDIST Tribunal and my 100% record of speaking and communicating the truth about baby like James's life.

Therefore Danielle I instruct you, as baby like James's only legal carer and legal advisor to make up baby like James 18 family nights to comply with the Mrental Capacity Act so he isn't deprived of his liberty to 18 family nights.

As each family nights gives baby like James 3 dreams come true my instruction will give baby like James and additional 12 dreams come true over your original family 14 night sleepover schedule.

There is NO reason for baby like James to be deprived of 4 of his cherished family sleepovers, the only thing he talked about isnce end of May.

You can use the Reasonable Adjustment clause of the Disability Discrimination Act to adjust anything that conflicts with baby like James cherished long awaited 18 family sleepover nights. You can make it 20 nights if you love baby like James but 18 is legal.

Baby like James just needs 18 nights where he can say what he wants, think what he wants, and do what he wants in the presence of the only people who love him and who have only ever spoken the truth about him and the only people who recognised his disabilities and he is truly happy with because of the above.

Please amend baby like James's family schedule from 14 to 18 nights and on the one night you indicated we will bring baby like James back at 9 am we will and 6 / 7pm on the other returning days.

Yours sincerely 

Simon Foden

Baby like James’s father and sole carer and Baby like James’s only legally appointed carer and legal advisor appointed by the SENDIST Tribunal and 20 years of verifiably truthful communication with a 100% record of telling the truth and a 100% record of recognising baby like James's lifetime baby like mental capacity in the theory of his MRI scan report and the daily practice of his baby like Mental Capacity in his safeguarding YouTube channel 29 years after his beyond all reasonable doubt MRI scan report.

Dear PC X

Please email me my log number for my very very serious and fully substantiated complaints again Mrs J’s Mother for her non-compliance with the Harassment Laws (repeatedly harassing College X to aid and abet her abuse of my son's incapacity), the Hate Crime Laws, the Libel Laws, Section 16 of the Mental Capacity Act 2005 and the Disability Discrimination laws.  I have evidence that J’s Mother has left no stone unturned to HARASS College X into non-compliance of their obligations under Section 16 of the Mental Capacity Act 2005 and the Disability Discrimination Laws.

Please note that I have to put the above charges to J’s Mother directly because Social Services have told me to do this and College X have also told me to do this and J’s Mother still hasn't given me the contact details of her solicitor. I have already taken all the legal advice I need to successfully resolve this unfortunate matter and I am simply not in any financial position to to hire another solicitor. I also have evidence from Families Need Fathers that my communications with both J’s Mother and the agencies involved in my severely disabled and incapacitated young adult son's care has been very restrained compared to other FNF members who find themselves in the same unfortunate position as I.

I have one thousand pounds in the bank to pay for baby Simone's delivery in the next less than 2 weeks and I may need to pawn my grandmother's bracelet if baby Simone needs a caesarean.  Therefore it is out of the question for me to hire another solicitor. All I want to do is put the charges directly to J’s Mother's solicitor as it is I who is my defenceless disabled son's legal representative. I still don't know the contact details of J’s Mother's legal representative!!!

I must refute any possible allegation in the strongest possible terms that I've harassed J’s Mother in any way. As you read below I've all but pleaded with J’s Mother to give me the contact details of her solicitor because I have a mountain of complaints against J’s Mother's non-compliance with Harassment Laws (repeatedly harassing College X to aid and abet her abuse of my son's incapacity), the Hate Crime Laws, the Libel Laws, Section 16 of the Mental Capacity Act 2005 and the Disability Discrimination laws. Once the matter is resolved all that will be left is for J’s Mother to settle her bill for the 6 month's work she ordered for me to clear my name after she libelled me to every agency involved in my son's care and to stop her in her tracks from committing further abuse of my son's incapacity, to stop her from harassing College X.

J’s Mother's constant refusal to give me the contact details of her solicitor who will be duty bound advise her on the plethora of laws she has broken is HER indication that it's HER preference for me to communicate with her directly until the matter is permanently resolved.

I'm sure you'll agree with me that her refusal to give me the contact details of her solicitor is her expression of preference that I communicate with her directly as per Social Services and COLLEGE X's instructions.

Please correct me if you do not think it is her preference for me to communicate with her directly in the absence of her solicitors contact details,

Please give me my log number for my fully substantiated complaint against Mrs J’s Mother for her relentless non-compliance with the Harassment Laws (repeatedly harassing College X to aid and abet her abuse of my son's incapacity), the Hate Crime Laws, the Libel Laws, Section 16 of the Mental Capacity Act 2005 and the Disability Discrimination laws. This is a very serious and fully substantiated complaint of J’s Mother abusing a severely disabled utterly defenceless young adult with a mental age of circa 4 years old. Please treat this complaint with the utmost seriousness and diligence.

Yours sincerely

J’s Father

Date: 21 March 2015 at 18:00

Dear PC X

I would like to add harassment to my complaints against Mrs J’s Mother in addition to her relentless non-compliance with the Hate Crime Laws, the Libel Laws, Section 16 of the Mental Capacity Act 2005 and the Disability Discrimination Laws I have evidence as J’s Mother has left no stone unturned to HARASS College X into non-compliance of their obligations under Section 16 of the Mental Capacity Act 2005 and the Disability Discrimination Laws. What transpired was that the College sat on the fence and ignored my complaints (Stoke Mandeville style) for best part of 6 months before finally coming off the fence and inadvertently but actively aiding and abetting J’s Mother in her abuse of my son's incapacity. This was the point, several weeks ago when the college forced me to refer the matter to the court of public opinion which is the highest authority in the land by way of complying with my obligation to my defenceless son that his appalling treatment be exposed and listened too.

As a result of the referral I College Xuickly gained the ear of the COLLEGE X legal team. Although they were extremely aggressive in their initial communication, by their second communication the legal team and I had a tacit understanding that the only person who had been libelled was J’s father and my complaints were listened to for the very first time.

I received a response from the complaint on Thursday evening and I can confirm that one of the 6 points that need to be cleared up in order to bring about a lasting solution has received a satisfactory response, i.e. that J's rights under Section 16 of the Mental Capacity Act 2005 to see his father and brothers and soon to be born sister on Skype and in person during our annual 2 month visit to see him in England and keep him in contact with 10 year old brother Sasha who lives in Solihull must be adhered to.

The other five points that have yet to receive a satisfactory response deal with gaining an understanding that J's rights under the Mental Capacity Act 2005 and the Disability Discrimination Laws Must be adhered to by way of a general understanding that nobody or no organisation has an exemption from these two laws (recognition of Magna Carta) and nobody or no organisation has a veto on whether J maintains his contact with his brothers and sister (who one day will be all he has to keep an eye on him and ensure his rights are adhered to) via Skype or in person - this includes Mrs J’s Mother herself.

I have a lot to tell Mrs J’s Mother's solicitor who I'm desperate to talk to as he or she will have a duty to her to ensure she complies with the Harassment Laws, the Mental Capacity Act 2005, the Disability Discrimination Laws, the Libel Laws, and the Hate Crime laws, but as yet she has been too cowardly to give me the contact details of her solicitor. I also need to speak to her solicitor about the compensation that is due to me to cover the cost of the last 6 months unpaid work she set me in order to clear my name from her libel and for my defenceless severely disabled son’s rights to be adhered to and include a compensation for the mental trauma she has subjected me to for no other reason than she wants to vent her hatred of J's family.

Why does Mrs J’s Mother hate J's family so much?

How J’s Mother groomed her victim for her sham marriage:

J’s Mother doesn't know why she has never been happy - but I do. You see the key to happiness is honesty. Honesty is a word that is not in J’s Mother's vocabulary. When I met her as my neighbour in the hall of residence at a university in St Etienne that we both attended during 1993 she asked me what I wanted in life. I said I wanted children and a dog. She told me she wanted the same. Indeed every time we saw a dog or a child she said "look there's a dog" or "there's a baby". It got a bit embarrassing.

She came to England and married me and J was conceived straight away. 9 month later he was born and fitting from a few days after birth. He was diagnosed with West Syndrome and Microcephaly. Later he was diagnosed with Neuronal Migration Disorder and Developmental Delay hence his mental age of circa 4.

After 4 years of marriage, on the day J' Mother’s British Passport arrived J’s Mother left me and told me I'd ruined her life because I knew she didn't want any children. This was the first I'd heard of this and the shock was served to me on a very cold and devastating plate.

Prior to this I was led to believe that she wanted children - and a dog! Therefore, you see - her hate campaign against J's family that she commenced late summer last year is down to the fact that she feels that I've ruined her life!!! Her deceitful and devious plan was to use me to get a British Passport but what she actually got was a British Passport and a delightful but severely disabled and incapacity son!!!

All my children are delightful to me they were all planned from my point of view and I love them all to bits and I will shortly be blessed with my daughter Simone who is due in the next two weeks. I currently live in Thailand with my partner Cherma (I'm too scared to marry anybody again) my delightful 2 year old son Sirus and baby Simone due shortly. The reason I live in Thailand is that I don't earn enough money to acquire shelter in England. In Thailand typical rent and bill combinations are less than £200 a month and food is cheaper here. I sadly fell off the property ladder during my bankruptcy following the 2008 property crash and I was made bankrupt and homeless. At this time I was fighting J's disability Discrimination case which I won for him but the time spent on the case caused me to take my eye of my work and I lost customers.  My second son S's Mom sadly left me because she wanted to live on benefits as a single mother because I didn't earn enough provide her and S with shelter. Therefore, here I am in Thailand with a new family and all the kids have enjoyed significant and rich actual and Skype contact from birth and they're all very close.

Now the police are involved in investigating J’s Mother's serial failures to comply with her obligations under the Harassment Laws, the Mental Capacity Act 2005, the Disability Discrimination Laws, the Libel Laws, and the Hate Crime laws I hope the unfortunate matters documented in my communications with you and on J's support web sites will soon receive a permanent solution in order to end the last six months of torment and distress she served upon me on  a very cold plate and resume my peaceful and happy life as a family man blessed with soon to be 4 amazing children without having to constantly look over my shoulder to see who J’s Mother is libelling me to next or what her next plot to abuse my son's incapacity will be to hurt his family will be.

So you can see that J’s Mother and I were never in fact "legally" married although a sham marriage existed for 4 years which ended the day the postman delivered her British passport therefore I respectfully request  that you refer to her as J’s Mother and not as my ex-wife - please.

I'll reply shortly to COLLEGE X legal team's recent response to my complaint that started 6 months ago.

Please don't hesitate to ask me if you need extra evidence on any issue detailed.

Yours sincerely

J’s father

Date: 21 March 2015 at 05:29

Dear PC X

Regarding my complaint about J’s Mother's serious offences under section 16 of the Mental Capacity Act 2005, the Hate Crime laws, the disability Discrimination laws and the libel laws (libelling me and my 2 sons Sirus and S as unfit and unworthy to visit Son / Brother J at his residential college in Harborne Birmingham). The evidence I've just furnished you with is a summary and only goes back to end of last year. I have evidence of how his abusive mother has left no stone unturned to airbrush J's loved ones who he grew up with and who grew up with him - out of his life by abusing his defenceless incapacity that leaves him with a mental age of circa 4 years old.

Having a severely disabled and defenceless son is very stressful indeed but to be a victim of hate crimes and watch his abuser illegally taking advantage of his incapacity to airbrush his loved ones out of his life, for no other reason than that she doesn't like them is utterly devastating and as a result of her abuse I've been unable to work for most of the past 6 months and I've been unable to think of much other than how we can stop her abusing my son's incapacity once and for all. Really once and for all so she can never inflict such total devastation on my disabled son's family ever again.

Please read the evidence carefully and I will give you additional evidence on request so that the nightmare J’s Mother delivered to J's family - totally out of the blue (we always managed a polite business like relationship prior to late last summer) can be permanently ended.

As soon as we've dealt with my complaints of J’s Mother's abuse of a severely disabled, totally defenceless young adult I'll be very happy to discuss J’s Mother's lesser reputation complaint based on her not wanting to take responsibility for her abuse of my defenceless son.

Yours sincerely

J’s father

Date: 21 March 2015 at 04:56

Dear PC X

I cannot talk to you about J’s Mother's complaint until we have dealt with my complaint against her first as my complaint is far more serious.

I have a legal duty to report 6 months of abuse of a seriously incapacitated young adult - my son J by his mother and hateful abuser: J’s Mother.

Her complaint is only about her reputation. My complaint is about 6 months of relentless abuse against my seriously disabled son by his mother who, for absolutely no reason whatsoever, decided to serve devastation my family on a very cold plate and repeatedly harass and goad his new college to aid and abet her in carrying out her abuse.

J and his father, brothers, sister due to be born any time now have had 6 months deleted from our lives due to this hateful woman's abuse:

Please read on - its mostly in reverse order and take a look at J’s support web sites noted below: